I love chess! I play chess to enjoy the game. So my priorities have to do with that, and alowing others to do the same.
My first priority is to enjoy the game and to play in a manner to allow others to do the same. After all, when playing chess you are interacting with an opponent and they are part of the game.
My second priority is to learn more about the game and improve my rating. Part of enjoying the game (only part) is doing well which can lead to winning.
My third priority is to help others learn as much as I can if they are interested. The better your opponents are, the more you can learn from them.
I could go into more detail, but I hope my priorities speak for themself. I hope we all enjoy our game. Thanks for you interest.