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6th November 2009, 08:14am
#1
by Exal
International
Member Since: Dec 2008
Member Points: 313

I have a question, why allways (well, almost always) when the people win a game should leave the "good game" or "gg" on the chat box even when it wasn't a good game?, this makes sense for someone here?

6th November 2009, 08:20am
#2
by sebastian11
Santiago Chile
Member Since: Jul 2008
Member Points: 279

you can also say thank you.
i figure it is a way of being polite.
i don't imagine someone saying, "this game sucked" and you being happy about it.
Maybe saying something else like thany you could do the trick and would not trip egos over?

6th November 2009, 08:20am
#3
by SaulHudson
England
Member Since: Feb 2009
Member Points: 179

Some people think it's respectful, some find it insulting.

Does anyone know why threads like this come in bursts?

6th November 2009, 11:20pm
#4
by Val3ntina
Serbia
Member Since: Nov 2008
Member Points: 148

GG after my bad game make me angry! Not nice...

13th November 2009, 12:08pm
#5
by tommytomato
rochdale manchester England
Member Since: Oct 2008
Member Points: 52

Surely its the game result that matters.

13th November 2009, 12:16pm
#6
by Exal
International
Member Since: Dec 2008
Member Points: 313

I only think that "good game", "gg", or similar have no sense when there wasn't a good game, or perhaps I'm missing a chess rule which says something about... "the opponent who wins the game must say good game to the looser"

13th November 2009, 12:22pm
#7
by rooperi
Pretoria South Africa
Member Since: Mar 2009
Member Points: 4104

If I lose, I congratulate my opponent. If i win, I normally thank him for the game.

If the game was particularly enjoyable, I'd comment on that.

But sometimes, the less said the better. I just won a game I reckon both of us would rather forget, so I kept quiet.

13th November 2009, 12:22pm
#8
by TheGrobe
Calgary Canada
Member Since: Nov 2007
Member Points: 4617

Have you ever been having a lousy day and someone making small talk asks "How's it going?" and you instinctively respond "Good."?

13th November 2009, 12:30pm
#9
by chaosdreamer
North Carolina United States
Member Since: Oct 2009
Member Points: 79

What maybe an awful game in your opinion could be an amazing game for someone else.

for an extreme example I am sure all my games would be considered awful in Kasparov's opinion. But they would hopefully be brilliant to someone new to chess.

 

Also I read one of these type threads awhile back and someone compared "good game" to the online equal of shaking hands after an OTB game is over. No mater how badly you lost or how much you slaughtered the person it is respectful to shake hands at the end.

13th November 2009, 12:38pm
#10
by Exal
International
Member Since: Dec 2008
Member Points: 313

rooperi, I totally agree with you and I do the same kind of things also.

chaosdreamer, I think "good game" or "gg" is not equal to shaking hands in OTB games, for example, imagine someone looses by the fools mate, can you imagine the "good game" here?, I agree totally with thank the game, but not allways the "gg"

13th November 2009, 12:46pm
#11
by Shivsky
DFW United States
Member Since: Jun 2009
Member Points: 596

In the same vein, "Thanks" is sometimes misread as "Thanks for handing the game to me, loser"  when really, the intention was to say "thank you for the time we spent together on this game".

13th November 2009, 12:49pm
#12
by rooperi
Pretoria South Africa
Member Since: Mar 2009
Member Points: 4104
Shivsky wrote:

In the same vein, "Thanks" is sometimes misread as "Thanks for handing the game to me, loser"  when really, the intention was to say "thank you for the time we spent together on this game".


lol, I guess you cant please everybody

13th November 2009, 12:49pm
#13
by Exal
International
Member Since: Dec 2008
Member Points: 313

Shivsky, sure, but these case is a little bit more subjective

13th November 2009, 12:52pm
#14
by Boring304
Israel
Member Since: Sep 2007
Member Points: 685

myself I hate the good game massage, as even when I play my worst game ever people keep saying it and thats annoying

at the end of every game I leave a "Thanks for the game" massage, or sometimes just "thanks"

13th November 2009, 01:02pm
#15
by Schachgeek
Western Hemisphere United States
Member Since: Feb 2008
Member Points: 1077

Thanks or thanks for the game is neutral enough, hard to imagine anyone being offended and it fits if you win or lose.

13th November 2009, 01:13pm
#16
by TheGrobe
Calgary Canada
Member Since: Nov 2007
Member Points: 4617

If someone is sensitive enough they'll be able to find reason to take offense in almost anything you say.  No reason to get worked up about it yourself.

Eg.: Either "Thanks" or "Thanks for the game" could be construed as "Thanks for handing me the game"

13th November 2009, 01:26pm
#17
by WGM Natalia_Pogonina
Saratov Russia
Member Since: Jul 2009
Member Points: 265

I think it's just like nh in poker, probably originated from it... Smile Anyway, never heard anyone say "gg" to me.

13th November 2009, 01:52pm
#18
by philidor_position
United States
Member Since: May 2009
Member Points: 587
Natalia_Pogonina wrote:

I think it's just like nh in poker, probably originated from it... Anyway, never heard anyone say "gg" to me.


perhaps because it's good by definition when players of your level play it Smile.

what nh stand for?

13th November 2009, 01:54pm
#19
by chaosdreamer
North Carolina United States
Member Since: Oct 2009
Member Points: 79

nice hand

13th November 2009, 02:01pm
#20
by BlackNight_13
Maine United States
Member Since: Mar 2009
Member Points: 864

I usually say "Good Game", especially when they have a forced mate.

I never really thought about how people could take that badly.

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