Lost a game on time - I was NOT alerted!

Quite possibly the same issue as messagecomments-alerts-missing.

Then you should whitelist alert@chess.com. It's not chess.com's fault if the message was sent. You should have checked the spam folder. I think that on those grounds, it's highly unlikely that the game can continue (not that it was likely anyway but still ).

Well, you probably just rely on yourself more, and be a bit more responsible.  Like, I myself, I have 42 games going on, which is a lot for me, so put this big markerboard up on the wall in my house and have each game listed by opponent and last move made.  The ones where its my turn I have marked with a big red star. 

I guess thats what you get for spamming and acting like staff...

/!\ Please do not bump old and irrelevant threads.

shut up... that is really annoying....

It is really annoying - you're not a mod; the mods don't need help.