Not all who leave are missed...in some cases their absence is a blessing in disguise.
Now that is true.
In Chessbee's case I think he is remembering what trysts did to one of this threads re military service. I'm not sure what he had against tonydal or orangehonda though.
Fraser: ... there are worse things than dying.
Ray: Yeah? Name three.
Fraser: How about two?
Ray: All right.
Fraser: Living without honor, or dying without reason.