your friend is now a short order cook west of the rocky mountains in a chess witness protection program.

Planning on getting kicked out soon?

Yet I should kill thee with much cherishing.
Good night, good night! Parting is such sweet sorrow,

Often the writing is on the wall for these members and it is plain for all to see.  Learn to recognize the signs and you can be proactive about your goodbyes.

Maybe don't be part of a cheating group like you said you were and you won't make friends with people who are getting banned. Maybe don't cheat in the first place and you'll never have to worry about it.

That would be an anti-cheating group then.

I guess he was.

as an observer and a consciousness i wouldnot say so