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Do you hate or love your opponents?


  • 23 months ago · Quote · #1

    Greenmtnboy

    Looking over the comments left on various oppoents' pages on this site, you would think that hatred is more common than affection among chess players.  What are the reasons for this?

  • 23 months ago · Quote · #2

    Scottrf

    Depends on the opponent.

  • 23 months ago · Quote · #3

    Greenmtnboy

    What are the behaviors that make you angry?

  • 23 months ago · Quote · #4

    bronsteinitz

    I play my opponents. That should be enough.

  • 23 months ago · Quote · #5

    JamieKowalski

    I am indifferent until either they prove to be a good sport or a poor one.

  • 23 months ago · Quote · #6

    msjenned

    Depend on the game. 

  • 23 months ago · Quote · #7

    blueemu

    Greenmtnboy wrote:

    Looking over the comments left on various oppoents' pages on this site, you would think that hatred is more common than affection among chess players.  What are the reasons for this?

    This could simply be a sampling bias. People who feel an active dislike for their opponents are more likely to post about it.

  • 23 months ago · Quote · #8

    Scottrf

    Greenmtnboy wrote:

    What are the behaviors that make you angry?

    Don't really get angry to be honest.

  • 23 months ago · Quote · #9

    karpastive

    I don't like my opponent leave the game after he won only one game .it makes me feel so uncomfortable . He did not give me any chances to beat him especially when i lost the previ0us game

  • 23 months ago · Quote · #10

    red-lady

    Hate and love are both very strong words. There is a grey zone in between them ;)

  • 23 months ago · Quote · #11

    Aletool

    I don't hate my opponent ,just hate his pieces

  • 23 months ago · Quote · #12

    MoonlessNight

    I would say 90% of the nasty notes people leave are about bullet games, where the opponent was generally upset about losing on time in a winning position. I have met only one bullet player who said a kind thing after a game, and that was CM jtoth

  • 23 months ago · Quote · #13

    VanillaKnightPOC

    karpastive wrote:

    I don't like my opponent leave the game after he won only one game .it makes me feel so uncomfortable . He did not give me any chances to beat him especially when i lost the previ0us game

    You had your chance in the first game, your opponent doesn't owe you a second one.

  • 23 months ago · Quote · #14

    karpastive

    VanillaKnightPOC wrote:

    karpastive wrote:

    I don't like my opponent leave the game after he won only one game .it makes me feel so uncomfortable . He did not give me any chances to beat him especially when i lost the previ0us game

     

    You had your chance in the first game, your opponent doesn't owe you a second one.

    but i will give my opponent another chances if he wants

  • 23 months ago · Quote · #15

    PLAVIN79

    Neither-I dislike my oponents if they are not playing a smart gameFrown

  • 23 months ago · Quote · #16

    Elubas

    karpastive wrote:
    VanillaKnightPOC wrote:

    karpastive wrote:

    I don't like my opponent leave the game after he won only one game .it makes me feel so uncomfortable . He did not give me any chances to beat him especially when i lost the previ0us game

     

    You had your chance in the first game, your opponent doesn't owe you a second one.

    but i will give my opponent another chances if he wants

    Well that's wonderful, but you are doing something you don't have to do, so it's not something you can expect from everyone.

  • 23 months ago · Quote · #17

    blake78613

    I pretty much play the board and not the man.

  • 23 months ago · Quote · #18

    karpastive

    Elubas wrote:
    karpastive wrote:
    VanillaKnightPOC wrote:

    karpastive wrote:

    I don't like my opponent leave the game after he won only one game .it makes me feel so uncomfortable . He did not give me any chances to beat him especially when i lost the previ0us game

     

    You had your chance in the first game, your opponent doesn't owe you a second one.

    but i will give my opponent another chances if he wants

    Well that's wonderful, but you are doing something you don't have to do, so it's not something you can expect from everyone.

    it's just a game ,but no one wants to be a loser.so why not give them a chance ?

  • 23 months ago · Quote · #19

    schnarrer

    karpastive wrote:
    Elubas wrote:
    karpastive wrote:
    VanillaKnightPOC wrote:

    karpastive wrote:

    I don't like my opponent leave the game after he won only one game .it makes me feel so uncomfortable . He did not give me any chances to beat him especially when i lost the previ0us game

     

    You had your chance in the first game, your opponent doesn't owe you a second one.

    but i will give my opponent another chances if he wants

    Well that's wonderful, but you are doing something you don't have to do, so it's not something you can expect from everyone.

    it's just a game ,but no one wants to be a loser.so why not give them a chance ?

    Maybe because they have other things to do and they just wanted to play a quick game? And what if you also lose the next game? Will you expect him to play a third one until you win? You may ask your opponent beforehand if he's willing to play two games with you but you can't expect him to do that only because you think that it would be nice.

  • 23 months ago · Quote · #20

    corrijean

    Occasionally I get aggravated at myself for missing something obvious. I like most of the people I play. Tend to play the same people a lot and chatter with them.


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