how do i report people for innapropriate conduct?

I am not sure but i would try goin to 1 of the staff members. maybe pick 1 of the staff that is in charge of a tournament and send them a message. Im sure they could at least point u in the right direction if they couldnt do anything about it personally.

thank you for the idea.

another question, how do i contact staff?

First, don't post the same forum twice.

You can report this at http://support.chess.com/index.php?_m=tickets&_a=submit&step=1&departmentid=5&subject=Abuse%20Report. You can just click on this link ore the one that says "Report abuse" at the bottom of every page.

sorry about that, i'll delete right away. thanks for the help i really appreciate it