well you know in all of my games i notice that when my oponnents take the move it takes a long time to move then it will come out i will be disconnecred , is this intentionally or a tricks CHESS COM pls. observe thanks.

First I'm not sure what you mean by "disconnecred". Secondly, I think you are playing a correspondence game, meaning your opponent has, by default, 3 days to make his next move. If you would like to play a quicker game try Live Chess. Sorry if this doesn't help.

he means disconnected, as in from a live chess game.  And no, it is not :intentionally or a trick," check out the warning on the live chess page which says that you will be disconnected randomly.