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20th June 2008, 02:12pm
#1
by cheater_1
Midwest United States
Member Since: Nov 2007
Member Points: 427

Well, friends, fans, and foes, I have been on this site 8 months. I will now assess the last 8 months for your enjoyment.

I stumbled across this site googling chess and chess related questions last November. I immediately took a liking to this site and quickly became a free member. I thought it was well layed out and I liked the dialog between fellow chess enthusiasts.

As time wore on, I found the dialog here....well.....boring--watered down--lacking substance--incorrect--juvenile--etc. I also found the site administrators' misguided judgement getting on my nerves. They..specifically Erik..treated others as if they were children. Treated this site as if it were their house and they were going to run it as they saw fit. People who were publically liked were given infinite more leeway than others. People that had a star or crown by their name (paying members) got away with murder. I saw people get reprimanded for simply talking about other chess sites while the admin turned the other cheek as paying members spouted obscenity after obscenity.

I saw this site evolve and add features that made it more and more interesting to come to. I saw an effort to give the people what they wanted by giving a loud mouthed jerk a private vote chess game with the entire pool of users. I watched the users of this site beat that user (me).

The users of this site have much to learn in the way of life. I sometimes wonder if their age is the same number as their IQ. But I realize that it cannot be, for they managed to band together and beat an above average chess player (me). Most of the users, in my opinion, are under the age of 20. Quick with the temper, quick to throw punches without regard for the consequences. They love their chess will defend its honor at all costs. Most here are quick to condemn others if they say something that is not agreeable one day, but the next day they will support that very disagreeable opinion if it suits their public image. Hypocrisy abounds amongst many of the users.

But this site is fun. It is fun for chess players of all skills, from all walks of life, to come here and indulge in conversation, as well as games, with fellow chess players from around the world. Much can be learned at this site. It is great place to come if you love chess.

I feel though that this site may be stuck forever in mediocrity. As long as the flash banner ads dont get out of hand, as long as the administrators realize that chess has a life of its own, and attempting to force this positive, sanitary, sunny-day, non-confrontational, "it's my site and I'll run it how I want" community down people's throats is not the way to run a business (unless you're DisneyWorld), it may stand a chance.

This site has come a long way in the last 8 months, but needs to continue to push forward out of mediocrity. It has not yet earned the honor for me to open up my wallet and pay my hard earned semi-worthless American dollar to become a member, but that day may come. I cannot see that day on the horizon, but I have hope.

cheater_1

 


20th June 2008, 02:25pm
#2
by nickel1356
pittsburgh, pa United States
Member Since: Jan 2008
Member Points: 198

What changes would you have the site make?  (I am an older guy, just for reference)... I looked at the ther online chess sites and to me , think this one is the best of the group.  It seems well thought out. Just one opinion.

Al


20th June 2008, 02:28pm
#3
by Mebeme
United States
Member Since: May 2008
Member Points: 673
I dont even see a point in replying to this post, I mean , what good does it do?
20th June 2008, 02:36pm
#4
by onewho_dies
hayward,Ca United States
Member Since: Sep 2007
Member Points: 435
get people's attention
20th June 2008, 03:02pm
#5
by CzarWithinMoons
Midwest United States
Member Since: May 2008
Member Points: 117
cheater_1 wrote:

People that had a star or crown by their name (paying members) got away with murder. I saw people get reprimanded for simply talking about other chess sites while the admin turned the other cheek as paying members spouted obscenity after obscenity.


 


   I'm not sure that that's the correct usage of "turn the other cheek".  It might be more of a "turn a blind eye" scenario.


20th June 2008, 03:22pm
#6
by erik
Mountain View, CA United States
Member Since: May 2007
Member Points: 5956

children, i order you all to smile and ignore this post!!

blah blah. cheater_0 is just pouting because i won't give him more stage room.


20th June 2008, 03:34pm
#7
by petershaby
Exeter England England
Member Since: Oct 2007
Member Points: 522
I like Disney World. Yaaaay erik!
20th June 2008, 04:24pm
#8
by Aminor7b5
Oslo Norway
Member Since: Oct 2007
Member Points: 98
How about creating a forum called "Unwanted Posts" for Cheater_1 and people like him? Laughing
20th June 2008, 04:40pm
#9
by dommy
Melton, Melbourne Australia
Member Since: Mar 2008
Member Points: 84
CzarWithinMoons wrote: cheater_1 wrote:

People that had a star or crown by their name (paying members) got away with murder. I saw people get reprimanded for simply talking about other chess sites while the admin turned the other cheek as paying members spouted obscenity after obscenity.


 


   I'm not sure that that's the correct usage of "turn the other cheek".  It might be more of a "turn a blind eye" scenario.


 lol you couldn't be more correct!


20th June 2008, 08:48pm
#10
by cheater_1
Midwest United States
Member Since: Nov 2007
Member Points: 427

I stand corrected. I am a MAN and I admit my ERRORS. Turn a blind Eye is INDEED the correct usage. I was wrong.

Ahhhh, if only all the others would be so quick to admit their faults, as I do mine, then this site would take one small step out of the quagmire of MEDIOCRITY.


20th June 2008, 08:55pm
#11
by erik
Mountain View, CA United States
Member Since: May 2007
Member Points: 5956
cheater_1 wrote:

Ahhhh, if only all the others would be so quick to admit their faults, as I do mine, then this site would take one small step out of the quagmire of MEDIOCRITY.


 this quagmire of mediocrity became the #1 most visited chess website in the world in less than 12 months.

but i digress... we're terrible, i admit it.(our first step!! i can feel it changing us already....)


20th June 2008, 09:01pm
#12
by Monado
Massachusetts United States
Member Since: Jan 2008
Member Points: 78
Congrats Erik, step one is always the hardest..only eleven left, and you'll be clean of your chess.com problems.
20th June 2008, 09:04pm
#13
by Mebeme
United States
Member Since: May 2008
Member Points: 673
why are we even replying? seriously...
20th June 2008, 09:04pm
#14
by shiggsyo
New Jersey United States
Member Since: Jan 2008
Member Points: 104
CHEATER 1 DON't pICk on UZ tenagers! U R A disgrace to chess.coom and weez r no litle children we r matre peeps whu have opinionz tu and nobudy not evin ERICK can stop[ us!
20th June 2008, 09:05pm
#15
by cheater_1
Midwest United States
Member Since: Nov 2007
Member Points: 427

ok ERIK, as you have done to me COUNTLESS times in my 8 months here, I shall now do to you. PROVE IT! SHow me some stats from a reputable source.  GIve me a link to back up your statement. You have 15 minutes to fabricate..er...ah.....show me some credible evidence to show that this is the most visited chess website in the world. I have CONCRETE evidence to support it is NOT. I eagerly await your PROOF.

THe clock is ticking.....15 minutes.....tic toc tic toc


20th June 2008, 09:10pm
#16
by cheater_1
Midwest United States
Member Since: Nov 2007
Member Points: 427

GONG!!!! GONG!!!! GONG!!!!! 11 minutes remaining.............


20th June 2008, 09:14pm
#17
by Rael
Calgary, Alberta Canada
Member Since: Sep 2007
Member Points: 2789
I think you've confused those 15 minutes with those of your fame.
20th June 2008, 09:17pm
#18
by erik
Mountain View, CA United States
Member Since: May 2007
Member Points: 5956

check it on www.alexa.com or www.compete.com . compare daily visitors with ANY other chess site you want.

http://blogs.zdnet.com/microsoft/images/smoking-gun.jpg


20th June 2008, 09:18pm
#19
by shiggsyo
New Jersey United States
Member Since: Jan 2008
Member Points: 104
Ahhh, Rael always stepping in with those well-timed comments... what would we do without him. Hey, I have an idea! Let's just start talking about Rael in every single one of Cheater_1's threads! All his old ones and every new one that he makes. Trust me on this one.
20th June 2008, 09:20pm
#20
by tbierig
St. Paul, Minnesota United States
Member Since: Nov 2007
Member Points: 342
One time, a kid fell in a pothole and his dog died.
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