Resignation debate: Let's raise the stakes

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18th September 2007, 10:45pm
#1
by anaxagoras
Lafayette, IN United States
Member Since: Jul 2007
Member Points: 286

New scenario:

 

You are playing a turn based game (like chess.com) with a strong opponent.  After a series of unfortunate errors, your opponent points out a forced mate in 6 moves, and asks you to resign.  You know that your opponent sees this forced checkmate correctly.  Do you think:

 

a)  Your opponent is being unsporstmanlike

b)  You ought to resign

 

If you believe a, I'd really like to know why.


18th September 2007, 10:52pm
#2
by erik
Mountain View, CA United States
Member Since: May 2007
Member Points: 10115

how about c) play it out because a mate in 6 is cool! :)

i actually think asking someone to resign is ALWAYS in poor taste. i think saying MATE in 6 is fine, but to ask to resign is not appropriate in my humble opinion. 


18th September 2007, 11:09pm
#3
by matzleeach
Chicago IL United States
Member Since: Aug 2007
Member Points: 804
Well that can go both ways. If an opponent tell you to resign, yes it is unsportmanship botton line. It is like a slap in the face. You don't need someone to tell you to quit or just give up it is hopeless. You can make your own judgement to play on or resign. On the other hand, it is also unstortmanship to wait at the last minute  on a turn base game to make a move just to pissed off your opponent because you are losing. What I think what's going on is that a player feel insultant when his opponent tell him to resign, so for some pay back make him wait till his time is about to run out before making a move. Fortunately, I haven't experience none of that nonsence. Player I played against had resign when they came to the conclusion that they lost, and I had done the same.
18th September 2007, 11:33pm
#4
by MolotovRuss
Hampshire England
Member Since: Aug 2007
Member Points: 263
Asking someone to resign? I'm yet to come across that, but when I do, I shalln't be happy!
18th September 2007, 11:45pm
#5
by Etienne
Montreal, Quebec Canada
Member Since: Jul 2007
Member Points: 780

Resigning when it's lost is polite, but not resigning should not been seen as "impolite". Resigning is being polite, but ASKING for a politeness is rude. That's my opinion on the matter.

 

So I think a) and b) are both good answers, however a) is the opponent being rude and b) is you not being polite.


18th September 2007, 11:53pm
#6
by anaxagoras
Lafayette, IN United States
Member Since: Jul 2007
Member Points: 286
Etienne, I don't understand "b) is you not being polite."
18th September 2007, 11:56pm
#7
by Etienne
Montreal, Quebec Canada
Member Since: Jul 2007
Member Points: 780
erm, b) is being polite, sorry. However I'd like to emphasise that politeness should be very important in chess, as it is fair play and more.
18th September 2007, 11:57pm
#8
by anaxagoras
Lafayette, IN United States
Member Since: Jul 2007
Member Points: 286
matzleeach wrote: You can make your own judgement to play on or resign. 

 Right, but that's precisely my question.  Upon what does a player base this judgement?

 

I have the sinking feeling that very few have thought this through before they say "it's always bad." 


19th September 2007, 04:12am
#9
by Sprite
Washington, D.C. area United States
Member Since: Jun 2007
Member Points: 406

I think it's fine to say Mate in 6.  But to say, resign, it's mate and six and you've lost, or something like that, there's no way in hell I'd resign. 

As eric said, I'd rather just play it out.  I think the player has every right to play out a losing (mate in X) combo, just because the game only ends at stalemate/draw/flags drop/CHECKMATE/resignation.  Once, I told my opponent mate in 2, and then he found a way out.  Never again will I say, "Mate in ____".  As for asking them to resign, it's kind of classless.  They will resign if they see it fit, and you're going to win after mate in X anyways.  Not to mention that if you've actually seen a mate in 6 or whatever, I hope you'd write it down or something, so it would take you all of 2-3 minutes to play out.

If you can't spare 2-3 minutes of your time...

perhaps chess isn't the game for you.

for a) to be unsportsmanlike, one has to really rub it in


19th September 2007, 08:46am
#10
by anaxagoras
Lafayette, IN United States
Member Since: Jul 2007
Member Points: 286

perhaps chess isn't the game for you.

 

Well now, there's a stunning non-sequitor.Undecided  Question the majority's opinion and they tell you where to stick it.  Sprite, keep in mind that I haven't suggested that "chess is not the game" for people who don't share my belief...  and just because your belief is shared by a majority does not make it more likely to be true.

 

_____________________________________________

 

What I think is more interesting was expressed by Etienne with the phrase:  Resigning when it's lost is polite, but not resigning should not been seen as "impolite".

 

This would suggest that the ethics of when to resign do not conform to rules of logical inference.

Normally...

if p then q

therefore

if -p then -q... 


19th September 2007, 10:33am
#11
by Etienne
Montreal, Quebec Canada
Member Since: Jul 2007
Member Points: 780

Well my point is that not resigning would not be polite but wouldn't be impolite.

 

Well not being polite doesn't mean being impolite. Let's call neutral behavior x andthe politeness factor y, being polite is x+y, not being polite is x and being impolite is x-y Tongue out
 


19th September 2007, 11:35am
#12
by RichardHayden
Ashburn, VA United States
Member Since: Jul 2007
Member Points: 250

I think it's perfectly acceptable to announce a forced mate in six if that's what you want to do, but you have no right to tell your opponent what they should do about it. 


19th September 2007, 12:01pm
#13
by bendcat
Marikina, PH Philippines
Member Since: Jun 2007
Member Points: 1299

 

Wow! I see some formulas here, I think were talking about resignation, rightLaughing, actually it is generally considered proper chess etiquette to resign clearly lost positions. The proper time to resign should vary with one’s chess ability.

Most beginners should probably play on until they are checkmated. But more advanced players should resign clearly lost positions when they are certain that if they were on the other side of the position, they could beat even a master.

 

It is rude and unsportsmanlike to abandon a lost position without resigning so as to allow the clock or time left to run out.

 

Here's a way to think about it:

maybe in some reason players were not allowed to resign, or the players nature is never to give up.


19th September 2007, 12:06pm
#14
by fischer
Iceland
Member Since: Aug 2007
Member Points: 446

IMHO, asking someone to resign is ALWAYS in poor taste, even if the other person is knowingly playing out a lost position. (If this is the case, just relax and take the high road.)

 

In the example above, most players cannot even see a Mate in 6, so telling somebody to resign is just plain arrogant.


19th September 2007, 12:09pm
#15
by fischer
Iceland
Member Since: Aug 2007
Member Points: 446
anaxagoras wrote:

perhaps chess isn't the game for you.

 

Well now, there's a stunning non-sequitor.  Question the majority's opinion and they tell you where to stick it.  Sprite, keep in mind that I haven't suggested that "chess is not the game" for people who don't share my belief...  and just because your belief is shared by a majority does not make it more likely to be true.


Perhaps you should put his quote into context. Here's what he said:

 

"Not to mention that if you've actually seen a mate in 6 or whatever, I hope you'd write it down or something, so it would take you all of 2-3 minutes to play out.
If you can't spare 2-3 minutes of your time...
perhaps chess isn't the game for you."

 


19th September 2007, 12:35pm
#16
by adeshmukh
KOLKATA India
Member Since: Aug 2007
Member Points: 106

I think it is impolite both to show your opponent that he is facing a mate in 6 as well as to ask him to resign (or do anything for that matter).  What your opponent wants to do is entirely his business and your business is to just play, exchange pleasantries and that's it.  Nothing more.  Turn based chess can remain an entertaining pursuit when most of us follow some etiquette. 


19th September 2007, 01:34pm
#17
by batgirl
NC United States
Member Since: Jun 2007
Member Points: 4451
I think it's right and proper to announce "mate in 6."  Resignation, at that point should be a foregone conclusion, but since some people may not comprehend that, I see absolutely nothing wrong with suggesting it, perhaps in the form of an option - "would you like to resign now or shall we play out the following forced moves?"  There's nothing at all impolite about this. And, as a result of the announcement of "mate in 6," I think the correct reply would be the same, "shall I resign now, or would you like to demonstrate the mate?"
19th September 2007, 01:55pm
#18
by cmh0114
Utica, MI United States
Member Since: Aug 2007
Member Points: 333
I think that asking someone to resign is about as insulting as you can be without actually seeing someone across the board.  I agree that it isn't impolite to tell your opponent "Mate in X moves," but it will most likely be seen as an insult.  I know that if my opponent said that to me, because I can't hear how they actually sound, I would think that they were bragging, and I'd probably drag the game on for as long as I could.  I'm not a poor sport, but if it sounds like someone's bragging, I'm going to try to get back at them for rubbing it in my face. 
19th September 2007, 02:01pm
#19
by matzleeach
Chicago IL United States
Member Since: Aug 2007
Member Points: 804
cmh0114 wrote: I think that asking someone to resign is about as insulting as you can be without actually seeing someone across the board.  I agree that it isn't impolite to tell your opponent "Mate in X moves," but it will most likely be seen as an insult.  I know that if my opponent said that to me, because I can't hear how they actually sound, I would think that they were bragging, and I'd probably drag the game on for as long as I could.  I'm not a poor sport, but if it sounds like someone's bragging, I'm going to try to get back at them for rubbing it in my face. 

Don't try to get back at them. That only reflect on your charater. Don't lower your charater bases off others low behaviors.


19th September 2007, 02:08pm
#20
by matzleeach
Chicago IL United States
Member Since: Aug 2007
Member Points: 804
anaxagoras wrote: matzleeach wrote: You can make your own judgement to play on or resign. 

 Right, but that's precisely my question.  Upon what does a player base this judgement?

 

I have the sinking feeling that very few have thought this through before they say "it's always bad." 


Off of his chess knowlegde. lets turn the table around. Do you think a very stronge player would be insultant if you suggest them to resign after you point out mate in 6 or I am up 6 in the force count. It's bragging  


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