i have challenged many players and not recieved answers yet    now when i click on new game my reply is that i have reached too many open seeks  what now?/.?

I would cancel some of the challenges you currently have open and challenge other people instead.

Try to join group membership... they have plenty of activities including games/matches to join that you no longer to challenge anybody. 

okay

Keep the min-rating fairly low and you'llm be able to get players. I hade the same problem.