Not sure what settings you're talking about. Suggest you read this:
http://www.chess.com/forum/view/livechess/new-logic-for-auto-pairing-and-seek-graph
and this
https://support.chess.com/customer/portal/articles/1622811-how-are-seeks-matched-in-live-chess-
Obviously we can't all play folks who are better than us. I'm not good at math, but even I can see how that doesn't work.
If you insist on setting the parameters manually, you have to choose Custom from the drop down time menu. A Rating Options button pops up. Hope this helps.
I dont want to play with people with elo inferior to mine. I configure my settings with "min rating = -50". This settings doesn't work. So, I manually abort the plays that don't fit my requierements. Now, the site chess.com penalize me because too much aborts. They don't allow me to abort games. What can I do? There is a solution or may I move to another site?