NO I can't explain it especially without knowing a thing about your OS, browser, or ISP.
See if anything in the blog helps and it's also very possible you're experiencing a temporary glitch that will go away or "fix itself" shortly. If you can't fix it and it persists, click on Help & Support at the bottom of the page and contact the staff directly.
http://blog.chess.com/NimzoRoy/diagnosing-and-fixing-internet-problems
Hello! Just recently joined the web site. More often than not every time I accept a challenge or start a game, the server aborts it. You can explain why it does this and what I should do in return? Thank you.