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It also depends on the character of people in that equation and how the solution is dealt with. But still you are saying marriage causes depression?
I think marriage causes anxiety. Not knowing what you are going to wake up to every day.
You are talking about not knowing your mate well enough and that is what is causing the uneasyness?
Even though you know her about everyday stuff, when you wake up in the morning and she says "I saw you looking at that woman with the big boobs last night at the bar, what were you thinking about pervert? " You think you know them but they come up with all kinds of crap to try and trip you up.
Good point but I try not to look when she is near, friends try to make me look but I try not to, advoiding that situation.
Women look too!
Yeah but that is Okay for them ElectricPawn.
A good relationship with a woman can be the greatest thing in your life. When a relationship goes wrong, it can be a misery. A lot of shit happens in this world, and I don't have much advice.
Okay that's my point. After you are married you will badgered to quit drinking all together if you really love her, but she can have hers because it doesn't really affect her.
The most she will ever do is try to make me slow down, but I am set in my ways and since she is from Italy her daily consumption is also boarderline high/moderate. No change is needed.
It is good if you know her expectations. Of course she doesn't have to say it. But if the wine is in the top list, I think it shouldn't be a problem because it is logical and you know that there is a common sense there, as long as she understands that it takes process to reduce/stop it.
Marriage will be a LOT different if there were kids in the family. This creates stronger commitment from both husband and wife. If she doesn't feel ready to have a kid, then probably she has not ready yet for deeper commitment, or she doesn't fully trust you.
After having kids, it is almost impossible to think about running away from marriage commitments. Family (with kids) will make marriage becomes "positive". Being in love (with your wife) is nice isn't it? But anger, hate may change that a bit. But being in love with your own kids is often stronger and immortal.
Yeah, but women look too!
Some guys find the right one and other guys struggle for a lifetime.
No fear, I'm sure he'll be banned soon since Krishnah64 is a re-tread, i.e., previously banned troll.
Sounds fine with me, thanks.
Who does the laundry?
She does now (I'm old fashion) but I will help.
Yeah but... not much in front of me...that could change although.
Shit does happen, you're right.
Very very well said. After my first kid, and only one, I didn't think I wanted or needed another so I had a snip procedure done. And she is ok with that. At least I hope, that might change.
My advice Wiener is, after my 3 marriages think about it with your head, not with your heart, and above all not with what's between your legs.
Very good advice.
many women expect you to be helpful, you know.
good communcation is required, lack of it might cause the depression.
Oh yeah they do, and then when you are helpful they go around and change everything you just did and tell you that she should have done it herself, it kind of makes you feel like a Turd.
After my first kid, and only one, I didn't think I wanted or needed another so I had a snip procedure done. And she is ok with that. At least I hope, that might change.
No, to much communication with the women is the source of untold misery and hair pulling.
I have an acquaintance who gave her boyfriend a proposal ultimatum. He did propose and they are getting married next summer. She still isn't happy though. In fact, she's quite bitter. Don't see how marriage would make a situation like hers better.
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