I am fairly new to this site, under a year.  And I have a secret.  I only told one person here what this is, can you guess the secret I'm carryig?  I will only answer as hot-warm-luke warm-cold.  If no one guesses in three days, I will reveal a clue.  Don't worry about insulting me because I won't be, any guesses are welcome.

Good luck

You're getting married!!

 Cold.  No secret

You have a split personality?

can I guess again?

 Cold.  No and I hope not.

 Yes as many times as you like.

Hmmm...you have cancer?

You are a famous chef?

Expecting a baby?

 Cold.  Not the secret.

 Cold.  Not the secret and not famous, chef.

Don't you have hints? A real secret has a bunch of hints attached to it.

 Cold.  Not the secret, vasectomy.

You've had braces, lol

You are a vegetarian?

Gay.

you're afraid of the dark

you can't swim, lol

this is getting fun. :D hmmm....you're a professional chess player and have just been taking it easy on all of us?