i just had to breakup with m boyfriend cuz he moved.....now, when i get over this phase of sadness, theres two people i have in mind thatll enlighten my day like he did.  do i

A--go for one of em

B--dont go with any

c--pick someone else

D--you dont know

like you say to me follow your heart let me tell you something that might help:

no distance can keep to people who care about each other apart. there is nothing   that can break 2 people apart except themselves so instead of thinking about how far, or you guys don't talk,or i haven't seen him in forever think is this right for me and think the only thing thatll make me happy is knowing he's mine

i hope that helps

I think you guys may want to stop posting your personal problems on the internet, it can be used as blackmail.

no, we're all friends

yep

"we"? I don't want any part of this...

no not like all the ppl here, like those who know me

Woulden't it be easier to message them on facebook, or, just throwing this out there, ask them. As crazy as that may sound, it directly questions them without looking desperate.

true

I love it when people agree with me.

miss, (or sir) when we lose someone we have feelings for its best to take time to yourself to find out what has changed about you.  when we engage in emotional relationships, both parties alter themselves to meet the needs of the other and the situation.  when that is over we are left "unfinished."  Find out what YOU want, who you are, and where you are going before diving into another relationship.  if its a physical thing, then by all means use protection and satisfy the carnal cravings without emotional attachment.  if its emotional attachment you desire find a good friend that will be there for you without pressing any pysical contact (best not mix sex and love up that never ends up well)-like a gay friend (no offense ment).  so in short, stay single for a while and dont confuse sex, emotions, and desire, for love.

In the old days, before the internet, when I wanted to communicate with someone far awy, I just wrote a letter. And the anticipation of a response letter keep me going for days and days. You might want to consider this.

And nothing wrong either with making new stronger bonds with other c;ose friends your "A" solution.

Just do not be alone, keep contact.