Chess.com keeps sending me messages that become a member. Why? Members get more facilities than us, always. why? I am sick and tired.

do you mean gold platnum and diamond

 Chess.com wants you to pay them money, members get more stuff because they pay money =)

i am a gold member

:-)

 you mist silver.

I don't think silver exists any longer. They got rid of it during the overhaul of the premium system. http://www.chess.com/membership.html?c=upgrade

If you are sick and tired, you should probably get some rest, and remember to eat and drink well, if you´re not healthy in a week or two, you should probably go see the doctor.

nah, erik give me a silver once.

 there is no silver

erik gave me one.