"Chess.com the place where head games are healthy and welcome" LOL! I made that up. Chess.com is a wonderfully fun mental gymn!  I recommend using the Bible for wisdom and Spirituality: http://www.chess.com/forum/view/off-topic/spirituality-and-chess   Laughing  When a child my dad would play chess with me and pay me a dollar for every move I could last more than 20 moves LOL!