Ain't that the truth. And you can't do the full course unless you have the diamond membership.
You find ways to vindicate yourself. For example, you tell yourself: "Just because I always make the first major blunder, that doesn't mean that I am the worse chess player."
"That's what chess is all about. One day you give your opponent a lesson, the next day he gives you one." -- Bobby Fischer
Someone famous (actually, I just "made it up") once said:
"Women like bad boys and bad chess players. "
Maybe.
You might get away with being a bad boy. But, if you're just a bad chess player...it would help if you could bring a lot of exquisite jewelry (none of that cheap stuff, either).