A dozen different positions could have a dozen different answers. Sometimes you must defend passively, sometimes you can counterattack.
Not that I think you care... I think you're just spamming topics. But for those who may wonder this themselves that's my answer anyway.
Whenever I play a player that keeps attacking and attacking, I end up blundering a piece because I miss a threat after having to deal with all these attacks and having to react. How do I deal with them?
Someone on this site named I think markyourgravitygood was telling me about the reaction chess problem. I think he said he got that from Silman.
So how do I stop their attacks? If not, how do I attack back? Or how am I supposed to defend? Just how should I deal with these types of players.