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Answer NO it won't and joining an online chess site so you can use its forums as a lonely hearts club is paved by setbacks where are loads of guys with female pictures and females with guy pictures surly you be better off using "Dateline" rather than a chess site!!?
I think you would do better playing OTB where you can actually meet the other person. Chess clubs and chess night a bars might be a good place to start.
Idk girls at chess tourneys are always really weird and being a girl playing chess is their whole personality
Chess is often associated with being an intellectual, which is attractive. And it may not attract everyone, but it will attract the right one :heart