Why Are People Still Bothered By Losing to a Woman?
I went to graduate school in chemistry with women who had greater minds than me, have been students and employee-subordinates of excellent women teachers/bosses. I have no more problem losing to a woman than a man - unless of course it's to my female cousin who plays here, in which case I'd lose family bragging rights!
I don't like losing to kids.............i'm an old guy.....maybe I need to take up something else like stamp collecting. now there's a hobby............
I dont know of anyone who is bothered by that. In fact, I would say its almost the opposite. I have found that some people PREFER to lose to a woman.
I don't think it is so common either. What is very common is simply being bothered by losing though.
think of being in a tournament hall with only one woman playing and you got matched with her, your knees are knocking and your face is red. now imagine being a woman in a tournament hall full of women but there is one bloke playing and you got matched against him! how embarrassing!