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don t feel sad Caro I wanna see you smile..

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kisses back

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quote-the-hardest-thing-in-the-world-is-

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.. The Old-as-the-hills, 'bluebird-of-happiness', hot tip !

 

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Happiness.
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Have you ever seen a child dance? They do not care what they look like. Wow we become cynical and jaded.
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I thought this morning Kay has only a few patterns.

A say people are talking rubbish.
B say people are crazy.
C say people are perverts.
D say people are repetitive.
E say people are liars.

I think that's about the sum of Kay's contribution in terms of engaging people.

Apart from that Kay joins in the banter in respect of nationality.

That's it.
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Some of these patterns upset me more than others. I do want more patience though.
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I'm not interested in upsetting kay. I'm just naturally trying to adapt.
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With Kay perhaps you have to accept the willingness to engage isn't there.

There's no interest in friendship or getting to know people.

Kay I wonder if you don't want to relate to people or can't.

Either way it seems pretty clear you're not going to.

I suppose there's no point in trying to engage you.
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So what are the options for dealing with Kay? Or those like Kay?

1 ignore.
2 attempt to make a joke in response.
3 reply to without expecting any sort of considered reply.

I'm not a person that likes to ignore people but it's illogical to enter into a conversation with someone that's not willing to engage.

Any other ideas?
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I could try each of those ideas and see which suit me best.
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Just enjoy the acid in his comments...lol

It's really funny. 

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Reasonably 'Breaking', meditation, News! .. H-m-m !? .. I think I'm already 'sold' on that, novelty !

http://www.oregonlive.com/pacific-northwest-news/index.ssf/2017/01/oregons_goat_yoga_now_has_a_60.html#incart_most-read_

 

.. In case, the 'link' didn't take - Type-in, 'Goat yoga,' on the 'Google' News-page, {top-of-page, mini-search-engine}.

 

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Meditation news?
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Hmm.
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Okay options.

Ignore.
Joke.
Engage without expecting an answer.
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It's not always possible to enjoy a vitriolic comment. It can be upsetting.

What needs to be remembered when we laugh at someone being mean is perhaps the person on the receiving end of the comment isn't comfortable or happy.

Remember sooner or later you'll be in their shoes.
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I have a feeling Kay has had more than a fair share of being bullied.
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Anyway have a good day. Time for work. Thanks for the posts guys.

Yes ed I will meditate on my journey home.

30 minutes. Good call.