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I had looked through photos to find someone to talk to. I felt a bit of a predator really.

But you know I think sometimes you can see a person is genuinely kind just through seeing their face.

It's lovely to meet someone that's as lovely as they appeared.
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Cherub send me a challenge if you fancy a chat thanks.
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I don't want to fall in love here LJ. I just want to know beauty and friendship.
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Yes, that's all I want on here too, friendship

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Sex that's another thing. When does flirting become sexting?
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Like when a man and lady talk to one another privately they are relaxed. Here they can see one another. Perhaps one or both is in an excitable sort of a mood!
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I'm sure you will offer something as beautiful in return, Tom.

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See I'm a married man! I have to be a gentleman. It's a bit awkward I guess to attempt to artificially engineer an acceptable level of flirting. I guess all one can do is if they think the flirting is too intense is say I can't.
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I'm sure there are all sorts of sexual kicks to be had here but a person has to be comfortable with themselves and I couldn't if I was talking to a lady that I felt I was in love with or that I felt I was in a sexual relationship with.
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You sounded so upset in the week, I'm glad you've found someone so soon who will help you get over what was upsetting you.

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Love and sex are different.

See I can be very very attracted to a lady here and feel comfortable talking to her.

I wouldn't feel comfortable talking to a lady I was in love with.

It's funny when you think about it really.

I feel though it wouldn't be fair to my wife for me to be in touch with a lady I loved as I love her.
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Love brings with it physiological changes. It's a natural thing. It brings the very best of highs.
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For me how I am is if I realise something isn't how it should be I end it quickly. I won't continue with something that isn't right.
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I feel okay right now thank you Lady Jane. I haven't tested really if I'm desperately depressed lately but I hope I have enough beauty and company that I'll be okay.
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I agree entirely, not fair.

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I've been desperately trying to find it. My wife isn't impressed with my posting.
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I have a lady here lofina that's a friend to me. I'm hopeful one day she'll forgive me and return. So many friendships I could have known. Still my days of resigning are over. There's no going back.
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Anyway part of my being able to cope is I'm to listen to some music and share a little art.

LJ I hope you are happy too. This thread is for everyone on this site. Absolutely everyone.

And they can say what they like here too. That's the deal.

Well Mod willing naturally.
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Nice to hear you seem to be getting over it quickly.

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Enjoy talking to your friend LJ. Just remember. Loving absolutely belongs to loving God! The word according to my beloved Ed!