nimzo indian or gruenfeld

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what will more suit an aggressive player like me and offer more tactical opportunities

I prefer grunefeld. Nimzo you usually give up the bishop pair quickly and I don't like that. Grunefeld you just jump all over d4 until it falls.

In Grünfeld, d4 does not always fall 

my favorite for White there is Nf3 followed by Qb3 (when I sometimes do play 1.d4)

The same in Nimzovich (and probably in most of openings) - if either of opponents is very eager to dry out the game - there are chances that the game will be dried out

I used to play Albin for some period, probably 7-8 years ago, agree, Budapest is more unpleasant for White than Albin, especially when Black is prepared in Budapest. When I was a student, I happened to participate in a small tournament, in another town. The leader of their chess club was a fan of Budapest, I did not know that :)) After that tournament, when I did happen to play 1.d4 as White (in about 95 games of 100 I play 1.e4), as White, upon 1.d4 Nf6 I became very fond of 2.Nf3 instead of 2.c4  However, after having spent some time working on good ways for White in Budapest, I returned to the "normal" 2.c4 )))))