Oh lighten up. It's probably just a computer generated message. Don't take things so personally. If you enjoy playing slow chess then play it and prove the computer wrong. I think this happens sometimes to strong players who know their openings well. If you know that you're not cheating then don't let it bother you.
We've had many a thread here where folks have broken 2000 and then threatened to quit the site because of chess.com's "congratulatory" message reminding them of the rules against cheating. It's just a computer blindly sending out messages. Nothing personal at all.
Hi,
I just played my first (very) slow chess game on this server (45+45) and get immediatly an auto-message that I'm monitored because of cheating now. Is this a joke?
I checked out the game with Stockfish, now.
Here it is
Please let me know if I'm really too strong for this server? Thats not sarcastic. I really like playing here, but if I should be indeed too strong, then please let me know. I will never play a slow chess game again here and continue with 3 min. blitz.