SELFISHNESS DESTROY CHESS

Some chess players are so determined to win that forgot the main value of every mental game;pleasure. They use every way to reach their destination . Some days before i was playing with a man from Austria with higher rating than mine.  In the midlle of the game i was winning. Suddenly he stop playing( even if he was online and not playing with another opponent) and the next day he had disabled chat. How antisocial and selfish a man could be? I believe that it's not honest to treat like this your opponent.Finally he took a draw.It was so embarasing for him?