the queens indian doesnt bother me at all! i actually enjoy playing the dutch which you called the double stonewall but the KID i literally hate with a passion. if you want to beat it study yaccov norowitzs games or get a book called the colle system by andrew soltis. its a good book. good luck
Some annoying systems against the Stonewall are, the Queen's Indian Defense, the double Stonewall, and the King's indian defense. Do you guys have other ideas?