Lek so, Dude!
A chess.com blogger posted a link to a book they were reading that scientifically debunked the notion of "natural" talent. In nearly every case extraordinary accomplishment was found to be the result of extraordinary effort combined with passion or enthusiasm for the activity.
When we consider meditation and chess as analogous, there is a point that I find valuable: patience. Both activities are fraught with "failure." At least failure in relation to our own expectations or hopes (hope will bite you in the butt every time).
The point is to find a way to persist in the face of this failure, because both activities will be filled with "failure." And the truth of it is that what we may, as beginners, consider failure isn't failure at all. It's process that we can be grateful for and we can consider with patience and perhaps even a bemused attitude as we continue to practice.
I have found that the gentle return to the object of meditation after discovering that I have become distracted is extremely valuable. In the short term, perhaps even more valuable than the ability to remain with the object! The faculty of awareness of distraction is cultivated and the ability to mindfully return to the object is what can change how we relate to our lives off the cushion.
Excellent post, Dude. Thanks!
CBM 6: Second Stage of Meditation – Continual Placement
“Your attention that was initially directed to the object of meditation does not stray elsewhere, but is continuously set upon the object of meditation.” Je Tsongkhapa (1357-1419 C.E.), Lam Rim Chen Mo “The Great Exposition on the Stages of the Path.”
So far, we’ve covered the following:
1) Preliminaries
2) Some obstacles
3) Overview listing all 9 stages
4) Stage 1 – Placement
And again, all three aspects will be touched upon in this post – chess, Buddhism and meditation.
The first stage, Placement, was simply finding an object of meditation, and then, however briefly, being able to stay focused on it.
The second stage, Continual Placement, is exactly as described. One is now able to hold the object of meditation a bit more than in stage one. With more continuity.
The primary obstacle for Stage 2 is….….laziness!
From what I’ve read, and pages could be written, according to Buddhism, laziness is actually a form of self-cherishing and pride. But, you’ll have to research that topic on your own. For our purposes here, the defining characteristics of laziness are:
1) Makes you postpone meditation. “I’ll get to it later…I’m tired…I have work to take care of…I have to call so and so…Smallville is on!”
2) Losing confidence. “I just can’t do it.”
3) Giving up meditation altogether.
There are four antidotes to laziness, and they follow a logical order:
1) Conviction (Tib: depa)
2) Aspiration (Tib: dunpa)
3) Effort (Tib: tsol way tson dru)
4) Extreme ease (Tib: shin jang)
To explain this flow of antidotes, will quote directly from a text entitled “Achieving Bodhichitta” by Sermey Khensur Geshe Lobsang Tharchin:
“In order to remove laziness, you have to develop conviction in meditation by learning about it’s object, purpose and beneficial results…Once you develop conviction you will feel the need to try and therefore you WILL try…if you learn the results and good qualities of meditation, you will gain conviction, aspiration and effort, which automatically reduces and eliminates your laziness…the ultimate antidote to laziness is extreme ease (Tib: shin jang.)”
So, it looks like all these principles can be applied to both chess and meditation. You’re not going to get anywhere unless you know what you’re doing. You learn, and develop conviction. Once you have the knowledge, aspiration kicks in. “I can do this.” With that aspiration, you actually carry out the action, whether it’s doing your “practice” on the cushion or in front of the 64 squares. Then, with enough conviction and aspiration, the effort doesn’t seem like “effort” anymore…it’s an activity that comes with extreme ease.
And that’s a key factor. Simply put, to do well in chess or meditation, there has to be extreme ease. More colloquially, there has to be joy, and it has to be fun. And one thing you’ll hear over and over again from any qualified meditation teacher, “10 minutes of good meditation is better than 30 minutes of bad. Leave the cushion wanting more, not feeling exhausted.”
As Westerners, we’re very goal oriented. When we get in to something, it’s never gradual or moderate. Super size me! 40” Flat Screen please! Blackberry/PC/Laptop all synced with 3G Quantum Particle Technology! I’ll love him/her/it forever! I will master chess! I will master meditation! Yadda yadda yadda.
That is not how reality functions.
Some, whether you attribute it to environment or genetics, are “naturals” when it comes to certain things. Some can lightly train, then go out and run a 5K or 10K. Some can pick up an instrument, and after hearing a song only once, play it, from memory, with ease. Same applies to chess and meditation. Chances are though, you can’t just go out and run a 5K or compose like Mozart. You are most likely neither Gary Kasparov nor The Dalai Lama. But, studies have shown, that on average, if one studies/practices regularly, one can master anything within ten years.
To reach the highest goals, one must learn, then practice. And practice. And learn. Most, when they realize they’re not Kasparov or Milarepa, give up when they realize what it really takes to be good. And ultimately, that’s the goal. Muddy Waters said it best:
“Look son…you don’t have to be the best. You just have to be good.”
I think ease of practice can be best summed up in the classic metaphor given by fencing instructors: “Hold the foil like you would a bird…not too tight, or you’ll kill it…not too loose, or it will fly away.” Or, as Buddha Shakyamuni heard the lute player say, “If the strings are too tight, they will break. If they are too loose, there will be no music.”
So…summing this all up: Second stage, is being able to keep your mind, with some continuity, on the object of meditation. The primary obstacle at this stage is usually laziness. And laziness is overcome by conviction gained through study/learning, aspiration, effort and extreme ease. Extreme ease implies that there is joy in the practice, and that one doesn’t push one’s self so hard that it causes suffering, yet simultaneously, one isn’t a wussy boy and give up when things get a little difficult.
Please find below direct quotes from authoritative sources on the topic. Next post, CBM 7, on to Stage 3, Patch-Like Placement, forgetfulness, and mindfulness.
“At this point, you are able to extend that perfect meditation a little bit longer…it is no good if you extend an imperfect meditation…By keeping your mind on the object perfectly for a slightly longer period of time, you have reached the second level…the measure of having achieved this stage is to be able to keep your mind on the object without being distracted for the amount of time it takes to recite one round of the Mani mantra on your mala.
Of the nine stages, the 1st and 2nd cannot really even be called meditation, because your mind does not stay on the object very firmly or for very long.
During 1 & 2, obstacles of sinking and scattering rush into the mind with great frequency. Much effort is needed to control the mind.” – Sermey Khensur Geshe Lobsang Tharchin, “Achieving Bodhichitta.”
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“When you are able to increase the length of time that you remain focused on your chosen object to a few minutes, you have attained the second stage…Your periods of distraction are still greater than your periods of concentration, but you do experience fleeting moments of focused mental stillness.” – His Holiness the Fourteenth Dalai Lama, “An Open Heart.”
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“There’s nothing magical about that duration , but maintaining such a degree of continuity is a sign post.
A crucial issue here – I can’t emphasize this too strongly – is relaxation. Especially if you tend to become very goal oriented in the practice (and I must say it practically invites goal orientation,) it is very easy, upon having found the object, to grit your teeth and bear down with the resolve: ‘I’m going to get this continuity if it kills me!’ You will get continuity, and it may indeed kill you if you go about with that muscular approach to shamatha. You’ve forgotten all about ease and relaxation, forgotten that maybe you should enjoy this practice. It’s called quiescence for a reason.
The transition from the first to the second stage (or between any two stages on the way to shamatha) happens gently, gradually. It does not happen overnight, or from one day to another, but rather as a gradient. You find that, more and more frequently, real periods of continuity become the norm. The way to move from the first attentional state to the second is by sustaining the relaxation and applying a subtle degree of effort to maintaining the attention.
The continuity must not be won at the expense of relaxation. If you forget that, you will waste a lot of time.” – B. Alan Wallace, “The Four Immeasurables.”