thanks peter.. i am taking a print out and will try to learn from my mistakes...
mean while must mention this guy..
http://www.chess.com/members/view/fwhoberg a real tough nut
see this is what he wishes... and may God bless him to be there !
About Me:
Hi there my is name Friedrich Hoberg I love to play chess and my dream is to become very the first chess grandmaster that is in a weelchair. I like to play agints strong players or anybody who wants play a game of chess
that simply means it was the game for white.. 
but i made most wrong moves...
Hi peter... i hope you are still there
this game though i won i dont think it is convincingly except for the last few moves.... just want to know was it a good game or he just made few blunders?
Hi, i wanted to know if playing solo chess can be beneficial to learn chess or if it's better to analyze my games and check my mistakes. Im' a beginner, so i'm still learning.
Of course yes..
the moment we try an alternative move.... the combinations are countless... so one should always check if there is any better moves
Hoi Sajay, you must have enjoyed this game, winning/loosing switched sites many times, so you must have enjoyed it, such is the most important, playing with inspirement!
And no it was not move 44 were balance was disturbed, earlier very many moments such happened. As I told earlier: I comment mostly in words, explaining the WHY(!!) of plans and moves (sometimes some moves), openings and moves well, those are in openings-databases and the good tool this site has for game analyses finished games, so, the WHY, such is constant factor re insight in chess and you could use in other games, generally constant knowledge for insight.
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Your game ( I reviewed very fast, my opinion as follows:
Opening Spanish, OK, but 5). Nd4x was better
move 8) Lg5 Bishop has no long term good function, better had gone for fast development castling, natural move, playing tempo!
Black playing 10) Nh5??? mistake of black, cost him tempo
White move 13 e5 is severe positional mistake! Weakens your Kingside..far more natural feeling is 13). Nd5 with tempo! then white a real plus position
White 15) Kf1 is not natural, white having double pawn f-file!, so far better 15). Dg4...if black takes you right away have attack on that Knight while still following ed6x very difficult issue for the black! (due to yr rook positions) my opinion than almost won position for white
better 22) h4! since white is fully controlling e-file and then the Knight comes under pressure
23) Kb1?...such position keep your King on c1 (since defending, you controll the e-file! Pawn a7 can be taken, why not? benefits yr endgame, black obviously better now.
Black should have played 24)...Ne6 with tempo on the Queen closing the e-file, at the same time making Rook to d8 possible, all pieces perfectly working together, won position for the black, natural moves to play
26) Qe3??...if alternatives then not exchange Queens when in lost postion, since such diminishes yr possibilities to complicate in tactical way! And white does need to complicate here
Yes, squesr f4 enormeous strong for black, since it cannot be attacked by pawns!...so the Knight of black has an excellent field, long term basis! and pawns Kingside will easily win the game for black, yes white has pawn d3...pushing that up? is far too slow
Better develop oyr KNight 29) Ne3 develop it, bring into play, since pawns are coming Kingside. Even your king has to go fro defending kingside, if fighting for some counterplay
Not 30) Nc3! Knight should be planned for square e3...so better just King to d2, to defend against the pawns
Better 33) Ne3 so you can make good the former error, Knight on its way e3! That should be the plan; now you get a pawn but end-game stay lost for white, moreover: do not exchange pieces in a lost or difficult end-game! such benefits yr opponent.
Position after black played move 35: lost for white: the black pawns walk and the rook controlling e-file..holding the king off!! White can also push d-pawn but that will prove to slow...black has perfect postion
Hectic game, though, again, must have enjoyed both players, rgds, Peter