Is there a way to force the French after 1.d4?

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No. You can play 1...e6, but they don't need to enter the French if they don't want to.

Sorry but no. You can try e6.

QGD can have similar positions

k thanks guys

No, but I tried learning the Dutch so that you either get to play the Dutch Defense or French Defense.

Like in the last answer, prepare for the French, but if declined continue with the Dutch (classical variation).