Sorry V29; this is a piece of junk. But you are going to tell me about it anyway, right ? Easy to figure out: " we are here because the universe exists. "
And so are other life forms, other nonlife forms, other planets, even other stars and other galaxies.
I'm afraid the first thing here was the first particle, Eu which started the universe. If you got a bad deal out of it , it's Eu fault !
The Universe exists because we are here

I am not going to tell you about it. It was merely meant to spark conversation.
Let me digress to a story. It is about religion but it is just supposed to be a lesson. There was a man who came to a Rabbi with a claim that he was right. The Rabbi listened and said he was right. Then a man came to the Rabbi contradicting the other man and the Rabbi said he was right. Then a man came to the Rabbi and said they can't both be right and the Rabbi said he was also right.
One time I heard a story that you learn Torah in your womb. Then when you are born an angel kisses you between your nose and mouth making the septum and you forget it. Every time you hear about the Torah in life you have a feeling that you've heard it before. I believed this and in another religion and they couldn't both be right. My guide told me just to believe in both. (Since this is on amateur astronomers as well the religion was an atheist religion and I'm not sure what I meant by angel)
What is the point? Well we all want to explain phenomena and then do so as simply as possible. Sometimes we are mutually exclusive to each other. But rather than tear at each other for our gifts of seeing things uniquely, why don't we support each other as long as all possibilities have a chance and help each other with each one?
http://www.dailygalaxy.com/my_weblog/2017/01/the-conscious-universe-a-radical-theory-the-universe-exists-because-we-are-here-view-video.html