Why am I getting unsolicited friend requests and how to prevent them?

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HexyAndINoed

The topic,  I have been getting "Out of the blue" friend requests from people I don't know and haven't played with.   How are they finding me and how can I better filter who does and does not reach out / try to connect?

Martin_Stahl
HexyAndINoed wrote:

The topic,  I have been getting "Out of the blue" friend requests from people I don't know and haven't played with.   How are they finding me and how can I better filter who does and does not reach out / try to connect?

 

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TheHarbingerOfDoom
You probably get them because you portray yourself as a female with your picture
HexyAndINoed
TheHarbingerOfDoom wrote:
You probably get them because you portray yourself as a female with your picture

Oh,  that's kind of creepy.

QSO67

Maybe they want to help you to Activate your Windows wink.png

HexyAndINoed
QSO67 wrote:

(Maybe they want to help you to Activate your Windows  )

Visual bug no doubt,  my copy is genuine.

QSO67

In that case i would recommend to edit that picture to not be showing that bug. But just my opinion, of course.

Woollysock
Yeah ! ......probably the fog. ! ✌️😎
HexyAndINoed
QSO67 wrote:

In that case i would recommend to edit that picture to not be showing that bug. But just my opinion, of course.

I don't like bandaid fixes,  microsoft customer support can fix that expediently.  

HexyAndINoed
Woollysock wrote:
Yeah ! ......probably the fog. ! ✌️😎

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Anonymous_Dragon

Not necessary that people only friend those whom they play with. They must have seen you on the forums ..... Also some people just want more and more friends....so they look up one of their friends profile and send a request to all of his friends.....maybe u could have been a mutual friend 

HexyAndINoed
Anonymous_Dragon wrote:

Not necessary that people only friend those whom they play with. They must have seen you on the forums ..... Also some people just want more and more friends....so they look up one of their friends profile and send a request to all of his friends.....maybe u could have been a mutual friend 

Oh I see,  I guess it's less alarming if that's something people do here.

Anonymous_Dragon
HexyAndINoed wrote:
Anonymous_Dragon wrote:

Not necessary that people only friend those whom they play with. They must have seen you on the forums ..... Also some people just want more and more friends....so they look up one of their friends profile and send a request to all of his friends.....maybe u could have been a mutual friend 

Oh I see,  I guess it's less alarming if that's something people do here.

Why ?

HexyAndINoed
Anonymous_Dragon wrote:
HexyAndINoed wrote:
Anonymous_Dragon wrote:

Not necessary that people only friend those whom they play with. They must have seen you on the forums ..... Also some people just want more and more friends....so they look up one of their friends profile and send a request to all of his friends.....maybe u could have been a mutual friend 

Oh I see,  I guess it's less alarming if that's something people do here.

Why ?

Well I thought it was strange that people were able to add me out of the blue,   I knew there was an option to add people post game,  but I didn't know how people were finding my account and giving me requests.   Did this mean they have my account information?   Could they figure out the URL to my profile somehow?  so on and so forth.  It was also very strange to me,  that I would receive random requests without it being a natural product of some interaction,  especially from a username I've never seen before.  

Anonymous_Dragon
Free-de-la-hoy2 wrote:
Anonymous_Dragon wrote:

Not necessary that people only friend those whom they play with. They must have seen you on the forums ..... Also some people just want more and more friends....so they look up one of their friends profile and send a request to all of his friends.....maybe u could have been a mutual friend 

Absolutely, The most probable reply I get when I ask to those who send me friend requests is that they saw me on another person's profile, They saw me on their Friend's friends list

Yes even I do it.... I mean I just randomly go through one of my close friend's profile and look up with whom that person is chatting with in notes and then I friend them. I guess u need to do it sometimes if you want to grow your friend circle

HexyAndINoed
Anonymous_Dragon wrote:
Free-de-la-hoy2 wrote:
Anonymous_Dragon wrote:

Not necessary that people only friend those whom they play with. They must have seen you on the forums ..... Also some people just want more and more friends....so they look up one of their friends profile and send a request to all of his friends.....maybe u could have been a mutual friend 

Absolutely, The most probable reply I get when I ask to those who send me friend requests is that they saw me on another person's profile, They saw me on their Friend's friends list

Yes even I do it.... I mean I just randomly go through one of my close friend's profile and look up with whom that person is chatting with in notes and then I friend them. I guess u need to do it sometimes if you want to grow your friend circle

Well it seems less alarming if that's like a norm here on this site.    

Anonymous_Dragon
HexyAndINoed wrote:
Anonymous_Dragon wrote:
HexyAndINoed wrote:
Anonymous_Dragon wrote:

Not necessary that people only friend those whom they play with. They must have seen you on the forums ..... Also some people just want more and more friends....so they look up one of their friends profile and send a request to all of his friends.....maybe u could have been a mutual friend 

Oh I see,  I guess it's less alarming if that's something people do here.

Why ?

Well I thought it was strange that people were able to add me out of the blue,   I knew there was an option to add people post game,  but I didn't know how people were finding my account and giving me requests.   Did this mean they have my account information?   Could they figure out the URL to my profile somehow?  so on and so forth.  It was also very strange to me,  that I would receive random requests without it being a natural product of some interaction,  especially from a username I've never seen before.  

U might have not seen them....but they might have seen you.... Now u made this post.... There could be hundreds of people who might be reading this but haven't commented. Also as I told you about the mutual friend thing...it's nothing new... They just would have clicked on to one of their friends profile who coincidentally would have been ur friend as well...and then found u

HexyAndINoed
Anonymous_Dragon wrote:
HexyAndINoed wrote:
Anonymous_Dragon wrote:
HexyAndINoed wrote:
Anonymous_Dragon wrote:

Not necessary that people only friend those whom they play with. They must have seen you on the forums ..... Also some people just want more and more friends....so they look up one of their friends profile and send a request to all of his friends.....maybe u could have been a mutual friend 

Oh I see,  I guess it's less alarming if that's something people do here.

Why ?

Well I thought it was strange that people were able to add me out of the blue,   I knew there was an option to add people post game,  but I didn't know how people were finding my account and giving me requests.   Did this mean they have my account information?   Could they figure out the URL to my profile somehow?  so on and so forth.  It was also very strange to me,  that I would receive random requests without it being a natural product of some interaction,  especially from a username I've never seen before.  

U might have not seen them....but they might have seen you.... Now u made this post.... There could be hundreds of people who might be reading this but haven't commented. Also as I told you about the mutual friend thing...it's nothing new... They just would have clicked on to one of their friends profile who coincidentally would have been ur friend as well...and then found u

I didn't know you could find a person's profile that way, and at least until the time of my writing the OP for this thread,  the user that was in my list wasn't a participant in any of the threads I participated in,  unless I suppose they were lurking.

Woollysock
Bring a cat into your life ! ......they make purrect friends ! ✌️😺
HexyAndINoed
Woollysock wrote:
Bring a cat into your life ! ......they make purrect friends ! ✌️😺

I have two,  one of which shreds everything and the other yells at him for it.