I suggest if you have trouble with dealing with hypermodern opening, you should also play hypermodern openings too.
Sometimes in chess, if your opponents like to play "anti-chess" and just sit back like how José Mourinho sits back in football, you should beat them by joining them (in their strategy).
again, it's not pieces that hurt me in games, it's position. i intended to share a nightmare game against a 1200-1300 who wrecked my castle, my queenside AND bishop pair before move 10 and i just wanted to quit right there with all my pieces uncoordinated. i get into positions where my pieces are all on bad squares and trip worse and worse trying to make things happen.
Your self assessment is wrong. It is not pieces or positions, but tactics that are doing you in.
little pawn moves drive me nuts. i despise pawns! they are the cause of maybe half of my positional agony, like a day or two ago... i had an advantage and totally blew it trying to crack open a fianchetto with an extra pawn on f5. i threw everything at it and never opened it up. that's the kind of foofy positional stuff i just can't wrap my head around.
Pawns are the soul of chess. Learn how to use them.
i deal in pieces... big "predictable" moves.
That is like saying "I only drive a car with 1 gear".
OK... maybe i should rephrase my question... what are strong attacking lines that rip the center open so one can actually play some chess?
You have an opponent. Neither of you can unilaterally decide what type of game it is going to be. You do not get to say "Hey, we are ripping open the center whether you like it or not". Your opponent has moves, too. In many lines, the position may remain closed for quite a while (and guess what - that is still playing some chess!).
as to black repertoire... i wanted to play the albin, but at = stats, it's not the strongest gambit. that, and i'd need a lot more because it seems like i never see queen's gambit anymore. no point in studying openings one never uses.
Openings are not your problem, nor should they be your focus.
as to hypermoderns, my understanding is that they involve 1 square pawn pushes. push 2, and you're not a hypermodern. as the carokann only pushes to c6, that's as hypermodern as pirc, modern & fianchettos etc. it's just a different push. i'm defining by first pawn move by the way. the french pushes to d5 most of the time, but it starts with that e6 that puts me in a bad mood whenever i see it. i swear i'm losing games out of frustration of drawing black 3 times in a row and/or playing half a dozen games in a row of nothing but openings i hate. there's gonna be stonewalling happening there.
Your definition of "hypermodern" is just wrong. The hypermodern approach is to not challenge the center with pawns and instead pressure it with pieces before making any pawn moves towards the center. The Pirc and Modern are both hypermodern defenses. The Caro-Kann and French are not. In fact, the Caro-Kann and French are "cousins", so to speak.
You are losing games because of tactics and ignoring your opponent's moves.
if anyone knows of a resource that really tells you how openings play, i'd be happy to do some homework, but in trying to pick a repertoire, i can't find good descriptions of any opening anywhere. that's a lot of time chasing dead ends and question marks.
There are literally dozens of videos on chess.com and various YouTube channels that discuss the ideas in various openings. But again, the opening is not your problem.