Why do people keep on recommending the Sicilian least of all the dragon variation!!! The sicilian is not a defense you can learn in three days. I have studied sicilian dragon for 3 months and do not even come close to claiming that I am prepared to play against all the variations!
southpawsam don't just give up the french especially if you really like it just because of the exchange. There will always be variations you do not like in the openings (white really gets to steer the direction of the game to be calm if he wants). And the exchange will be less common the better players you play against anyways.
Well playing the petroff would be suicide if your not prepared. The petroff is a great opening but you need to know a solid line against almost all white tries just not to get crushed. For equality the rubinstein variation of the french defence should work nicely. The classical variation is good for nutrilizing whites initiative but you have to watch out for the alekhine-chartard attack. You also have to learn the advance and exchange and maybe a few anti french defence like the steiner variation.