How can black be better after Bf5 it just drops a pawn. Looks to me like white is much better there.
I would seriously doubt any coach who suggest a basicly unsound (but perhaps playable) opening like the Albins counter gambit to someone who has to learn the fundaments of chess openings first. I can understand that with your style you wont like the orthodox queens gambit but there are many openings that offer dynamic play while at the same time being sound. The Tarrasch comes to mind.
The dynamicy of Albin-Counter is more than Tarrash. Gambits are meant to be accepted (accept for maybe the queen's gambit) not to be declined. When they are accepted, the gambit player should have some counter play. What you are saying is that black gets no counter play.
My coach is 2500... I don't think you should argue with him.
I would like to point out IM Pfren's post:
On the other hand, almost every schoolboy already knows that 5.a3! gives a serious advantage to white in all lines.
Kiril Georgiev has covered this in his "Squeezing the Gambits" book in exemplary fashion. Boris Avrukh also suggests 5.a3 in his white repertoire book, although his analysis is not as thorough/convincing.