Kindaspongey,
Willy Hendriks' book, Move First, Think Later: Sense and Nonsense in Improving Your Chess, is really interesting. He makes many controversial claims in that book, but his opinion on studying openings, as you presented it, is actually more or less the orthodox position among chess coaches.
However, Willy Hendriks would almost certainly not approve of the general handwaving and wordy responses that occur in these threads. He believes that words often get in the way of chess understanding. His basic thesis is to analyse moves, and not worry too much about whether a good move fits some dogma.
This goes just as much for the opening as any other phase of the game. If a concrete move order refutes a general principle, then the general principle was the wrong one for that position. Studying specific openings will help to recognize the importance of tactics.
Here's a rather banal example of a concrete move refuting a general principle:
... even [in human correspondence play], most brilliant opening novelties will still be wasted in the interesting middle games that will arise from those novelties.
Are the typical plans of the opening only relevant to players expecting to use brilliant opening novelties?
Another question?
You know the answer to that.
Opening theory is useful to almost all correspondence players. I focused on the use of novelties, but that doesn't preclude players just following along. I generally follow theory as long as it's beneficial to me. Others follow theory without realizing they are going the wrong way. Perhaps I'm optimistic in thinking such correspondence players will eventually learn from their mistakes. I did play one cc game against a NM which followed theory for about 30 moves then we agreed to a draw. I was Black and was very happy with the draw.
Most games will leave theory at some point. The new move could be a TN (theoretical novelty) or TL (theoretical lemon).