1) A single grandmaster having a better score with f4 than d4 or e4 provides no support to the claim that f4 is better than d4. Perhaps he is simply playing d4 poorly.
2) Your second argument that "data don't play chess, you do" is nonsensical. It is true that understanding "can be a deadly weapon", but you can just as easily apply the same argument to d4 or e4.
Playing f4 is for attempting to catch people off guard and hoping they don't know how to play against it. I admit that it would probably work with me since I am a fairly weak player, but that does not make it good.
1.f4 can be better than 1.e4 and 1.d4 .You want data? GM Danielsen has better score with it than the others.Isn't that data?
We try to make you realise , not that 1.f4 is the best, but that it can be the best, because "data" don't play chess, you do , so what you understand can be a deadly weapon , not only for your opponent but also for "data".