no, it's good.. because chalenging another player gives the game some challenge and fun
Chalening the opponent to start the game.

seems like a good suggestion, maybe send the administrators an e-mail, they look at all the suggestions

Sir, I got your point. Unfortunately, this is a limitation of our presence here at chess.com, which we may have to live with it. We do not own or we can not manipulate directly the website, hence, if one cannot pass a bridge directly, he can use a boat or some other means to get to the other side. Silly, as it may seem, but I think this is fun and a learning experience. I hope after the tournament, you may be able to know more on getting around the website which you may apply in other situations. I wish you can bear some of the birth pains because it will be fun after birth. Thanks Sir.
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