Um, people have to be aware if their opponent is on vacation. This is just how it works. And besides, there is no way for a person to exploit you being away on vacation any more than if they had access to your account for just a few minutes.
RE stalkers: I Would be pretty honoured if someone took a 6 hour airplane ride in an attempt to murder me.



someone could have the same rating as you but have been playing and winning consistently people rated 200 points below, i like to try and play poeople who are quite closely matched to myself
And yet, you have an average oponent rating 150 points below your rating. I do not try to play people below myself, but I still have a lower average opponent. It's not very indicative of anything.