once again, chess.com frowns on people suffering from high-self esteem.
Chess.com frowns upon self-confidence :(

See, since no one is going to give that to you for obvious reasons, you oughtta be able to give it to yourself.

People are much too hard on themselves. Life must be rough for those who think that expressing compassion towards oneself is somehow a sign of narcism or weakness. If we don't have compassion for our own wounded being (and we are all wounded), how can we extend it to others? You can't give what you don't have.
Y'all finding the randomest trophies too XD like what the heck.