How much attention do women on chess.com receive

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Maybe I should do that.  You already have a higher rating than me, anyway.

JuliusSneezer7
The problem when you fake being a girl , is your gonna get replies from guy’s , and that’s gonna feel really weird man ! 🤨
l_l_RISK_l_l
JuliusSneezer7 wrote:
The problem when you fake being a girl , is your gonna get replies from guy’s , and that’s gonna feel really weird man ! 🤨

That would be the biggest problem for me.  That's why I myself haven't done it.  Also because I feel bad about lying.

4go10_legend

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kuchbhipratik
blackfirestorm wrote:

 

Glad there is some place where we Indians aren't excelling totally; but needless to say there will be Indian dudes too poking here and there instead of focusing on their chess journey!

kuchbhipratik
DarkSkewer wrote:
blackfirestorm wrote:

 

Report him please.
This site is about playing chess, not about being horny and looking for chicks...
I'm sorry you have to deal with this. As a male, I only have to deal with players who stall, taunt or cheat...

I hate people who stall; it irks me so much. I report 'em all but God knows if any action is being taken or not!

 

blackfirestorm
kuchbhipratik wrote:
blackfirestorm wrote:

 

Glad there is some place where we Indians aren't excelling totally; but needless to say there will be Indian dudes too poking here and there instead of focusing on their chess journey!

Well considering the amount of messages I get from Indians that same something similar it’s not restricted to just 1 part of the world. They all get reported. 

JuliusSneezer7
Ah ! ....blackfirestorm how are things with you ? ..........long time no see ! ......Woollysock is on an extended vacation, so I’m standing in for him .
YellowSpeedingHouse

https://morgenbladet.no/aktuelt/2019/03/jeg-blir-sextrakassert-pa-chesscom-skriver-julie-nordby-egeland

https://www.chess.com/blog/erik/harassment-and-toxic-behavior-on-chess-com

 

blackfirestorm
JuliusSneezer7 wrote:
Ah ! ....blackfirestorm how are things with you ? ..........long time no see ! ......Woollysock is on an extended vacation, so I’m standing in for him .

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Pulpofeira
llama47 escribió:
blackfirestorm wrote:

Cuz they mistake it for chest.com 

I had a really awkward conversation with a non-player outside of the hotel that had the chess tournament. I was between rounds, and he was smoking.

He kept calling it "chest" and when I'd start to laugh he'd get this look on his face like "are you making fun of me?" Eventually I just made an awkward excuse and walked away.

Years ago a member of the site shared an anecdote: he was visiting Spain, and asked the receptionist at the hotel where he could find a chess club. She gave him an address, and later he found himself in a jazz club. "It was only after this that I learned that horrible word, 'ajedrez' ". grin.png

blackfirestorm

lol

TheOtherCreep

i think this happens because of the ads people see when they dont have premium

blackfirestorm
TheOtherCreep wrote:

I think this happens because of the ads people see when they don't have premium

It has nothing to do with ads and all to do with men reacting like kids with raging hormones at a pretty face. 

yal_the_cat

People with friend lists that mainly have woman r prolly creeps.

TheOtherCreep
blackfirestorm wrote:
TheOtherCreep wrote:

I think this happens because of the ads people see when they don't have premium

It has nothing to do with ads and all to do with men reacting like kids with raging hormones at a pretty face. 

can you explain that more clearly? I cant understand a word you mean. I get weird ads like disneyland girls for no exact reason. thats really the only reason why i mentioned ads. I can change my statement with the weird ads i see and make it off topic for no exact reason.

TheOtherCreep

venue is that person in the left bottom corner that complains about peak rating and wants to get into bullet tourneys again. I just recognized the profile because i keep argueing about the fact she thinks rating should be determined by quality, not winning or losing. I mean what quality? everything else would be from creeps.

blackfirestorm
TheOtherCreep wrote:
blackfirestorm wrote:
TheOtherCreep wrote:

I think this happens because of the ads people see when they don't have premium

It has nothing to do with ads and all to do with men reacting like kids with raging hormones at a pretty face. 

can you explain that more clearly? I cant understand a word you mean. I get weird ads like disneyland girls for no exact reason. thats really the only reason why i mentioned ads. I can change my statement with the weird ads i see and make it off topic for no exact reason.

Yes of course. Boys as they grow start going through puberty and then the hormones kick in and that is when they start chasing girls. Or boys as they prefer. 

MEN, however, have already got past the puberty and hormones raging stages till they join this website and see a pretty face then they are all over them like a rash in the same way they chased girls as young boys. 

Get the picture now? If MEN stopped acting with their private parts and engaged their brains they would understand that a pretty face doesn't mean we want that attention from them. 

JuliusSneezer7
You often read threads from some of our female members, about them getting unsolicited lovey dovey mail , from male members, but never the other way round ! 🤷‍♂️........why do the ladies have all luck , and not us geezer’s ! .........seems a bit unfair if you ask me ! 🤨
blackfirestorm
JuliusSneezer7 wrote:
You often read threads from some of our female members, about them getting unsolicited lovey dovey mail , from male members, but never the other way round ! 🤷‍♂️........why do the ladies have all luck , and not us geezer’s ! .........seems a bit unfair if you ask me ! 🤨

Probably cuz us women ACTUALLY come here to play chess not find their future husband