Im scared of lowering my rating

well i will analyse youre last rapid loss (as those are usually more informative)

well, its just blundering stuff for which puzzles are helpful 

when you fear, all is lost

To become the best, you first have to face the worst.

Looking at the game llampozhil25 posted, it looks like you need to slow down and look at all of your options.

Your highest rating ever was 836 and I don't see any GM matches won or lost. Also, you lose games from time to time and in the beginning (like all of us) you failed a lot. Stop lying. Nobody's perfect.

Thanks for the advice! I play 30 min rapid now.

This helped my friend too

You could start by learning how to spell "Carlsen" correctly :/

The truth hurts

In rapid I have been 777 for ages and never play rapid cuz i like number 777. I also took a long break back when it was 666. Now i pretty much only play blitz and occasionally bullet till I can catch up to my 777 rapid even though I know that I play far better when i aint worrying as much about time trouble and actually have some time to sit and think about what I'm doing, and rapid is better cuz it don't make me as mad and don't give me heartburn. blits and bullet is fustating cuz I keep loozing on time when I basically got the other guiys king running around naked on the board

I can relate to this too. I was at a personal best in blits, but then I started playing siodum attack and drunken knight attack because I remember I used to play like that as a 5 year old, and then my dad kept getting mad at me for sucking. and I never touched the game again till 22 years later or so. I realize why playing like that suiocks because I went down like over 100 rating pouints and had to take a break from chess cuz i was piossed off

I have not played rapid in a month because i like my number which is the highest number i got so far. So if I want to play rapid I play on lichess so I dont risk my rating. Also i started to play blitz to on lichess because now my blitz here is my highest so far. 

The word "Almost" is probably there because there are some people who think another person's rating is a valuation of how worthwhile that person is.

That seems particularly prevalent among the strong youthful players and might be due to them starting in a club with other youthful players that had that attitude and were condescending to the newcomer because of the low rating.  Or a club of older adults that look down on the young new player.

A community club that accepts young players and treats them with all the respect they give other chess players works better because the young players are not getting ridiculed for their errors and when (not if) the young players get skillful enough to beat the adults they will continue to return that respect.

From a practical standpoint, many players will be internally condescending to those more than 500 points lower-rated and a number of them will also be externally condescending.  If the other player is not condescending then your rating doesn't matter.  If the other player is only internally condescending then your rating does not seem to matter.  If the other player is visibly condescending then the other player's opinion is not worth worrying about.

exscactly. I have low rating in chess because I sucks, but in rocket league I recently cracked champ 1 in doubles! I still play chess cuz i like it, people shouldn't be restricted to only the games or activity that they are good at. If someone poo poo you because ur low rating, remember that there is probably a lot of ting that you can do that some world class chess player not able to do.

I played a board in a 13 person simultaneous game, with Jonathan Berry.

Every time he came by to make a move I'd look at his shoes.

After 6 times he asks "So why do you keep looking at my footwear?"

I reply "I just wanted to see if you are one of those savants that can only play chess".

He laughs and mentions he drove his own car all the way to the match by himself.

I think it is a good thing to try to improve our scores by improving our skills,
but we should not be afraid to accept our current rating "as a fact" (knowing that it is only approximate) -- the lower it is, the easier it should be to progress :-) !

- and I think anyone who really wants will be able to progress, even if only slowly.

We have to train with puzzles, lessons, and games.

If you are as low as 100 you should probably train a little against the lowest rated computer bots, and do the game review in order not to do the same mistakes again. (It may be worth while to write down into a little booklet these things you want to remember, in case you can't remember them just by seeing it on the computer screen.....
You should really try to learn them by heart as you learn poems or vocabulary in school.

It may be a good plan to learn by heart 1-2 setup openings: London system if you're white, King's Indian defense if you're black.

Well how are you ever going to make it higher if you don't play?

you should practice unrated too, and when you feel ready play rated.

This one is also really good ;)

If you play as a guest it won't affect your rating.