Chess is a game. It is a clever, funny adngenerally nice game. But it is just a game.
We want to be better on that, to win our "opponents" but most of us play for fun. I do that too and thats why i love playing chess more than many other things I do in my free time.
I know it's fun to bask in victory, and there's nothing that deflates you more to showcase one of your wins and then have a lot of people point out the serious blunders you made which could have lost the game had your opponent been better. But that's how you learn to become a better player.
i agree with you and i play just for fun and be a better player
Be a better player is my biggest goal