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Can a chess addict have a girlfriend?
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Apr 18, 2018
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BMMhunter3d wrote:
I don't know
Thank you for stopping by, BMM! On which side are you, if there is such thing? Lol
Apr 18, 2018
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Smositional wrote:
Play a lot of chess and get a sixpack...
... of beer.
You are so dam right! Because whatever you do is not good enough, if you have a girlfriend and, check this out, my favorite quote is from a girl(friend): "The people you think you care about, don't care about you, Go alone in life, it's better than company;" Can you believe it?
ratingchess wrote:
Hi everyone,
We all know how chess can become addictive and in this forum topic we will dive into analyzing if there is time left. or means for a chess amateur, or not, to develop a relationship with a girlfriend. The dilemma usually is that if you want to do something good, you need to concentrate all your attention on that thing. For example, you want to play a good chess and to improve substantially, then you don't have time for a girlfriend and viceversa. Do you agree and why, either way?
Do not agree. If you are giving so much attention to chess that you cannot have a girlfriend--something is seriously wrong with you!
Apr 18, 2018
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ponz111 wrote:
ratingchess wrote:
Hi everyone,
We all know how chess can become addictive and in this forum topic we will dive into analyzing if there is time left. or means for a chess amateur, or not, to develop a relationship with a girlfriend. The dilemma usually is that if you want to do something good, you need to concentrate all your attention on that thing. For example, you want to play a good chess and to improve substantially, then you don't have time for a girlfriend and viceversa. Do you agree and why, either way?
Do not agree. If you are giving so much attention to chess that you cannot have a girlfriend--something is seriously wrong with you!
So, if I understood correctly, you said that we should have time for both, right?
Apr 18, 2018
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ilikewindmills wrote:
No it's physically impossible.
I tend to agree with you! Everything is so complicated these days that require all your time and attention to do something really good, either having a girlfriend, or to become good on chess. Otherwise, you will be forever a mediocre and I am puzzled to see people since 2007 in here which never got over 1200. I think these guys do both lol
Given ur rating I seriously doubt that u are spending too much time on chess.same can be said for me too
That could be true for a master or a gm
If the girl is really *special* concentrate on her. It's easier to recover from losing some chess games than it is to recover from losing someone who is an important part of your life. Best of luck in your choices!
Apr 18, 2018
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yianniww wrote:
Given ur rating I seriously doubt that u are spending too much time on chess.same can be said for me too
Well, because I am trying to do both lol
Apr 18, 2018
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yianniww wrote:
That could be true for a master or a gm
Yeah, but any of us to get there we need to work hard on chess. The question is can we get there with a girlfriend?
Apr 18, 2018
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52yrral wrote:
If the girl is really *special* concentrate on her. It's easier to recover from losing some chess games than it is to recover from losing someone who is an important part of your life. Best of luck in your choices!
That's funny to say that. Apparently, I thought that I can do both, but she chose for me. She didn't believe that I felt in love with her in here, on the site, and she blocked me, ha.
I noticed the only friends you have on your profile page are only attractive women.Hmm,do yuo think maybe she did too? LOL
Hi everyone,
We all know how chess can become addictive and in this forum topic we will dive into analyzing if there is time left. or means for a chess amateur, or not, to develop a relationship with a girlfriend. The dilemma usually is that if you want to do something good, you need to concentrate all your attention on that thing. For example, you want to play a good chess and to improve substantially, then you don't have time for a girlfriend and viceversa. Do you agree and why, either way?