Can you have fun when you keep loosing ?

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Does it not bother you or takes you off some pleasure when you keep loosing ? 

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Lose games is always hard... but sometimes it's possible to have fun and lose a game in the same way...

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semente_curiosa wrote:

Does it not bother you or takes you off some pleasure when you keep loosing ? 

Losing can be less than enjoyable, but its not the end.  I have played some really good game, and lost simply because i was out played.  As long as you learn somethng from your losses it evens out.

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Diakonia wrote:
semente_curiosa wrote:

Does it not bother you or takes you off some pleasure when you keep loosing ? 

Losing can be less than enjoyable, but its not the end.  I have played some really good game, and lost simply because i was out played.  As long as you learn somethng from your losses it evens out.

Well said!

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The first 100 games I played [ I was age 8 ] was against my dad and I lost every game.

But after losing those games I improved and very soon was winning enough that my dad quit.

There was much fun in the games lost as I learned about chess.

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ponz111 wrote:

The first 100 games I played [ I was age 8 ] was against my dad and I lost every game.

But after losing those games I improved and very soon was winning enough that my dad quit.

There was much fun in the games lost as I learned about chess.

Wow, that really is some great resilience! After 100 games you kept going on, bravo .

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When things are looose I recomend using Loctite.

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no

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dropped_a_piece_or_2 wrote:

When things are looose I recomend using Loctite.

I was gonna say something about an ex-gf who was a little loose, but I like dropped_a_piece_or_2's comment better.

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You can only get smarter by playing a smarter opponent. I guess if he wins ... he is smarter.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWj7oWlVtag

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When I lose, I push back the books on the shelf in front of me an inch or two. I do this by throwing a sponge ball really hard from across the room. I also scream insane and illogical profanities at my computer screen causing my dogs to take up residence outside the house. We installed a dog door in an exterior wall because I play chess online.

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enjoy choosing to lose and to win sometime

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I don't like losing (who does?), but if I feel like I played my best, it doesn't sting nearly as badly as it does when I do something stupid.  It's also a reminder that there's always more to learn and a good incentive to get back to studying or hitting the tactics trainer.

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I absolutely hate to lose. Losing, more than winning, is what drives me to play better. 

Having said that, if I lose ~5 straight to the same player in blitz, I'll probably (silently) admit defeat and look for another opponent. I will definitely try to get back and play that person again after I've studied my losses tho. 

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Even Magnus Carlsen stops playing when he loses too often. He has said that playing against engines is no fun.

Avatar of Ziryab

When I lose, there are two possibilities: I did not play my best, or my opponent cheated. There would be other possibilities if I were playing masters, but these games are rare and I sometimes win them.

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Okay, I'll be the one... I love losing! Can't wait to lose again! 

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Game to game I don't care much if I lose. But, if I loose, I'm pissed!!

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Sorry but this is my # 1 pet peeve as well (well in the top 3):

Loose = not tight    /   Lose = not win

I have only seen this error quite often in the last 15 years, hardly ever before that. I wondered why it is surfacing so frequently now, but I wonder if it's from the skit (from a movie, SNL? can't remember) "You're a looooooooooser, ha ha ha".

Any one know why this spelling fail is so prevalent now?

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Bunny_Slippers_ wrote:

Sorry but this is my # 1 pet peeve as well (well in the top 3):

Loose = not tight    /   Lose = not win

I have only seen this error quite often in the last 15 years, hardly ever before that. I wondered why it is surfacing so frequently now, but I wonder if it's from the skit (from a movie, SNL? can't remember) "You're a looooooooooser, ha ha ha".

Any one know why this spelling fail is so prevalent now?

You would think there would be a grammar app :-)