I am very new to chess, but so far I have not had anyone say anything inappropriate to me on this site. I do intend to keep playing.
You have a very good rating for a beginner, so you earn respect for your playing skills.
For a man it makes no sense to think: "women are playing chess not as good as men do", especially if he is playing against a woman with a higher rating. He will probably loose more games against her than against an equally rated man. Don't underestimate women.
The statistics just say that the vast majority of professional chess players is male. I think female chess players have the same potential as male players have. It's sad there are not so many female chess legends like the Polgar sisters. There should be more.
I think there are just less playing women than men. maybe it's a psychological thing, maybe the bias in past years, but there are less playing women. maybe with more women, they'll reach a higher score. but maybe, psychologically, women are less fit to playing chess. (I'm not saying women are inferior, only that they don't suit the game, like men aren't suited for carrying a baby)