game aborted mid game?

Happens to me sometimes and I think it's server resets. You'll get booted out of live chess and be unable to play for 5-10 minutes but it usually doesn't last too long.
im pissed off my game has been aborted again this is at least the the 20th time it has happened in the the last week and it is always when i am winning chess.com needs to get it act together or maybe there"s something better available maybe someone could do a better job im just really pissed off sorry if my language upsets your sensitive feelings but someone needs to get their act together i play for the the competition and enjoyment and being aborted and server going down doesnt come under that headline i would like an explaination as to these problems but your so busy making money you dont care well if this keeps happening it wont be my money your spending

Neskitzy holy crap your logo. I forgot all about that band.

I was winning a game and the opponent just aborted. To be honest I don't think they should be able to do that. And you gain now rating points. Can you even abort mid-game?