Hi mase1973a,
Could you let me know what operating system, browser and browser version you are using when you are experiencing this?
Also, the server gives you 15-20 seconds to make you r first move. If you fail to do so the game will automatically be aborted.
I have been trying to get games and when I ask for opponents it makes me wait a long time and then if I go into another screen momentarily to do something else, it aborts extremely quickly...it's very frustrating,,,is this common, does a paid membership resolve this?