GAMES

Wow i have like 8 games going on can anyone tell me whats that about? I mean its not bad cause i make 1 move per day or at least thats how i understand it but I want to know did I turn something on or what?

I believe that you turned on the option to be a Chess.com welcomer, which (if you want to) can be reversed if you to be going to My Home-> Account --> Online Chess --> Unclick the option that you want to be a chess.com greeter. You shouldn't fret that much about your greeter games, though, since 90% of the people that you greet will time-out within the first 5 moves.

thanks dude i have one going on thats im interested in finishing can i give the person more time or will he finish without running out of time

Sadly, I don't believe that you can give more time to another player if they're going to lose on time.

Try unchecking the "Auto-Win on Time" setting.

http://www.chess.com/home/echess_settings.html

thanks